This post contributed by guest blogger and chronic disorganization specialist, Janice Russell, CPO-CD.
If you have family, you have stuff!
- Personal stuff (purchased, received, acquired)
- Immediate family stuff (spouse, children, parents)
- Extended family stuff (grandparents, great-grandparents)
Although we don’t like to think about it, when a family member is incapacitated or dies, the remaining relatives are left with lots of stuff! These articles often lead to arguments or avoidance. Now is the time to set a clutterless legacy example! Everyone should keep the items that have the most meaning to them and that don’t create clutter so that as they mature, they will be able to access the articles that bring back their fondest memories. On the other hand, if they keep everything that has “some meaning” then they won’t be able to find the pieces that have extra special significance.
Another result of only keeping the most meaningful items is that someone else won’t have to wade through lots of clutter to get to the items that they want. For example, when my parents pass on, I want to remember the good times. I want to be able to grieve the loss but cling to my fondest memories. If I have to go through all stuff they refused to decide to delete (piles of obsolete papers, outgrown clothes, years of old magazines, gadgets that haven’t worked for decades, etc.) I will be upset. I will not be able to grieve properly, as I will be angry over having to take so much of my time to make the decisions they couldn’t.
By the way, I have had this discussion with my parents and I am happy to report they have taken steps to cull their collections. So, how about you? Do you want to leave a cluttered or a clutterless legacy behind?
~ Janice
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