Remember when we were kids we used to say to other kids and especialy siblings, "You're not the boss of me!" It's hilarious. Somehow every American kid is born knowing that phrase! And it's true. Other kids weren't the boss of you.
Now that you're an adult, YOU are the boss of you -- and that means you're the boss of all your stuff, too. So who's winning? You or your stuff? Who has the upper hand? My friend, if it isn't you, that's a sad state of affairs. When stuff begins to overtake your space, affect your sanity and quality of life, and impede your happiness, it's a wake up call for you to act.
Say what you will... it's because you're busy, you had a baby, you changed jobs, you got married, you got divorced, you moved, whatever your excuse, the truth is that stuff is overtaking your life because you're letting it. You have failed to assert your power over it, so it accumulates and begins to smother you.
Here are a few tips to help you tip the balance of power back in your favor:
1. Pay Attention: Your home is essentially a container and just like any container, when you add things to it without taking anything out, it fills. Quickly. If you pay attention to the number of THINGS you and your family bring into your home every day, and simply reduce that number, you're nipping the clutter problem in the bud, so to speak. If you don't bring it inside in the first place, you never have to take them OUT again.
Leave junk mail outside in the garbage, opt out of credit card offers, don't accept donations from well-meaning friends unless you REALLY need the item, resist "free stuff" at the mall, and create a simple system for processing mail & school papers daily.
2. Shop Consciously: Buying is one of the chief causes of clutter build-up in your home. If you find yourself shopping for fun, to relieve boredom, or to make yourself feel better, I ask you to stop and consider what it's doing to your home. You might get a fleeting, temporary "feel good" from a new purchase, but the feeling goes away when you get home and find that you have little or no space for anything new. Stay away from the store unless you are going with a list to buy things you really NEED, and never shop when you're feeling sad or angry.
3. Customize Your Storage Spaces: Closets, cabinets and other storage spaces are essential for keeping your life in order. If your storage spaces are too small or just aren't working for you, consider changing them to make them as effective as they can be. Add shelving to existing closets, use lazy susans inside kitchen and bathroom cabinets, apply hooks to walls and inside cabinet doors to add storage capacity, and add overdoor shoe bags to hold small items in bathrooms, basements and garages.
These three simple changes will help putYOU back in the driver's seat when it comes to taking your power back from clutter and loving your home again!

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